That your body language Tell

That your body language Tell And 'the choice to listen or not listen to someone speak. You listen when needed and desired, but other people who are a good listener? Listening skills are essential for the proper ratio and are also critical in many professions, including professional help. If you are a happy marriage, a person with problems of counseling, coaching or members of your team for business success, good listening skills lead others to feel more comfortable. They have more confidence in you and keep you in high esteem. You can not understand the importance of body language, while others view. And 'even more important than his words. What says "listening" and inspire others who are talking about you the confidence is listening? Your body language, of course! Even if you are really listening to all the short, will not be considered as a good listener, unless you have the body language right. A poor listener has many of these traits will bend or even move away a little ', arms, perhaps a little' impatient toe tapping, and often look elsewhere. Or, if someone starts to read, then you can be sure that they are not listening! And of course, if your body language indicates that do not want to hear the other person feel less comfortable talking with you and be less likely to confide in you. This is a good recipe for the creation and the lack of distance in a relationship. A good listener has five characteristics that can be remembered with the acronym "SOLER". S - Square face the other person on the spot. If you have not then you may give the impression that you want to hear. O - Open-posture Folded legs, arms and, in particular, can be subconscious signals that you do not want to hear what the other person has to say. L - Lean-towards Lean slightly towards the other person. This indicates an interest in what they say. Leaning away from a person tends to indicate disinterest. E - Eye-contact Maintain normal eye contact with the other person. If you keep your eyes or look away, you may give the impression that you are not comfortable or willing listener. R - Relax Do not be too formal or rigid. A relaxed posture suggests that you are comfortable in the role of listener, and ready to listen to what the other person has to say. Top of practice listening and body language and SOLER hours you improve your abilities and relationships and outside of their work.